How to Handle Teething Pain: A Parent’s Guide

Watching your baby go through teething can be challenging. One day, your little one is smiling and content, and the next, they seem fussy, drooly, and uncomfortable. Teething is a natural developmental milestone, but it often comes with sore gums, disrupted sleep, and extra stress for parents.

Most babies begin teething around six months of age, although some may start earlier or later. Common symptoms include increased drooling, chewing on objects, swollen gums, irritability, and changes in sleeping or eating habits. While these symptoms can be frustrating, understanding what is normal and knowing how to provide relief can make the process much easier for both you and your child. 

At Bealeton Family Dentistry, we believe that early dental education helps parents make confident decisions about their child’s oral health. This guide explains everything you need to know about teething pain, safe relief options, and when professional dental care may be needed.

What Is Teething?

Teething is the process of baby teeth, also known as primary teeth, emerging through the gums. Babies are born with all 20 primary teeth already developing beneath the gumline. As these teeth begin to erupt, the surrounding gum tissue can become tender and inflamed, leading to discomfort. 

Typically, the lower front teeth appear first, followed by the upper front teeth. Most children have a complete set of primary teeth by age three. 

Common Signs of Teething

Every child experiences teething differently. Some babies show very few symptoms, while others experience noticeable discomfort.

Common signs include:

Excessive Drooling

Teething often stimulates saliva production, leading to increased drooling. This may also cause mild skin irritation around the mouth and chin. 

Chewing on Objects

Many babies instinctively chew on toys, fingers, blankets, or other safe objects because the pressure can temporarily ease gum discomfort. 

Swollen or Sensitive Gums

The gums may appear red, swollen, or tender where a tooth is preparing to emerge. 

Fussiness and Irritability

Pain and pressure from erupting teeth can make babies more irritable than usual. 

Sleep Disturbances

Some babies have difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep while teething. 

Reduced Appetite

Sore gums may make feeding uncomfortable, causing temporary changes in eating habits. 

Does Teething Cause Fever or Diarrhea?

One of the biggest misconceptions about teething is that it causes high fevers or diarrhea.

Research shows that while teething may slightly elevate body temperature, it does not cause true fever, diarrhea, vomiting, or serious illness. If your child develops these symptoms, it is important to consult a healthcare professional because another condition may be responsible. 

Parents should contact a pediatrician if symptoms seem severe, prolonged, or unrelated to normal teething discomfort.

Safe Ways to Relieve Teething Pain

Fortunately, there are several safe and effective methods to soothe sore gums.

1. Gently Massage the Gums

Using a clean finger, gently rub your baby’s gums. The pressure can help reduce discomfort and provide immediate relief. Many babies find this surprisingly comforting. 

2. Use a Chilled Teething Ring

A cool teething ring can help reduce inflammation and numb sore gums. Refrigeration is recommended, but avoid freezing teething rings because extreme cold may damage sensitive gum tissue. 

3. Offer a Cool Washcloth

A clean, damp washcloth chilled in the refrigerator can provide a soothing texture for babies to chew on. This simple remedy is often highly effective. 

4. Provide Cold Foods (Age Appropriate)

For older infants who have started solid foods, chilled fruits, yogurt, or other soft foods may help ease gum discomfort. Always supervise your child and ensure foods are age-appropriate to prevent choking hazards. 

5. Maintain Comfort and Routine

Extra cuddles, soothing activities, and maintaining a familiar routine can help babies cope with temporary discomfort. Emotional reassurance often makes a significant difference.

6. Use Pain Relievers When Recommended

If discomfort becomes severe, pediatricians may recommend age-appropriate medications such as acetaminophen or ibuprofen. Always follow professional guidance regarding dosage and age requirements. 

What Parents Should Avoid

Some teething remedies may appear helpful but can actually pose safety risks.

Avoid Teething Necklaces

Amber and other teething necklaces can create choking and strangulation hazards. Pediatric and dental professionals generally do not recommend them. 

Avoid Benzocaine and Lidocaine Products

Certain numbing gels containing benzocaine or lidocaine may be harmful to infants and are not recommended for routine teething relief. 

Avoid Frozen Objects

While cool items are helpful, frozen teething rings or ice can injure delicate gum tissues and should be avoided. 

Avoid Unproven Homeopathic Remedies

Many homeopathic teething products lack evidence of effectiveness and may contain ingredients that pose health risks. 

Caring for New Teeth During Teething

Teething is also the perfect time to begin establishing healthy oral hygiene habits.

Before teeth appear, gently wipe your baby’s gums with a clean, damp cloth after feedings. Once the first tooth erupts, begin brushing with a soft-bristled infant toothbrush and a rice-grain-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste. 

Good oral hygiene during infancy helps reduce the risk of early childhood tooth decay and establishes habits that support lifelong dental health.

At Bealeton Family Dentistry, we encourage parents to start thinking about preventive dental care as soon as the first tooth appears.

 

When Should Your Child Visit a Dentist?

The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends scheduling a child’s first dental visit by their first birthday or within six months of the first tooth erupting.

Early visits allow dentists to:

  • Monitor oral development
  • Identify potential concerns early
  • Provide preventive guidance
  • Discuss nutrition and oral hygiene
  • Answer parental questions about teething and tooth eruption


Early dental care builds a foundation for healthy smiles and helps children become comfortable with dental visits. 

Families seeking compassionate, family-focused dental care can rely on Bealeton Family Dentistry for personalized guidance through every stage of their child’s dental development.

Why Professional Dental Guidance Matters

Many parents rely on advice from friends, family members, or online forums when dealing with teething. While shared experiences can be helpful, professional dental guidance ensures that recommendations are safe, evidence-based, and tailored to your child’s needs.


A trusted dental team can help distinguish normal teething symptoms from potential oral health concerns, ensuring your child receives the appropriate care at the right time.


At Bealeton Family Dentistry, our team is committed to helping families understand every stage of oral development while providing comprehensive preventive care for children and adults alike.

Conclusion

Teething is a normal part of childhood development, but it can be an uncomfortable experience for babies and stressful for parents. Understanding the signs of teething, using safe pain-relief methods, and avoiding potentially harmful remedies can make this milestone much easier to manage.

Remember that while mild fussiness, drooling, and gum sensitivity are normal, symptoms such as high fever, diarrhea, or persistent illness should be evaluated by a healthcare provider.


Most importantly, teething is the beginning of your child’s lifelong oral health journey. Establishing healthy dental habits and scheduling early dental visits can help ensure a strong, healthy smile for years to come.

If you have questions about teething, your child’s oral development, or preventive dental care, visit Bealeton Family Dentistry to learn more or schedule an appointment.

Frequently Asked Questions

Most babies begin teething between 6 and 10 months of age, although some may start earlier or later.

Discomfort often occurs for a few days before and after a tooth erupts. The overall teething process continues until all primary teeth emerge, usually by age three.

Gentle gum massage, chilled teething rings, cool washcloths, and age-appropriate cold foods are among the safest and most effective remedies.

Teething may cause a slight rise in temperature, but it does not cause a true fever. A high fever should be evaluated by a healthcare professional.

Children should visit a dentist by their first birthday or within six months of the first tooth erupting.